I have some news that I don’t think will surprise very many of you. In fact, unless there’s a legion of readers out there who never comment and therefore have never made me aware of their existence, I think the majority of you already know.
Last spring Ibis and I decided to separate, and I’ve since filed for divorce. I really hate getting into things this personal on my blog, but I’m planning to change my name back to Hooyenga and I thought that might raise a few questions if I didn’t say something. I’d rather not get into the particulars, but the split was amicable and we remain friendly.
I can’t begin to explain how wonderful my friends and family have been over the past several months. I’ve had a behind-the-scenes pep team/venting circle/wishing-they-could-buy-me-a-drink-but-can’t-because-they-live-in-the-intertoobs group that’s kept me smiling and looking towards the light at the end of all this.
I have another six weeks, give or take, until this is officially behind me, and I couldn’t do it without all of you.
Hoosblog 
Can I buy you a drink?
p.s. yeah I knew about the split but didn’t want to bug you.. I respect your privacy :)
Ray I figured you knew. ;) Yes, I’d love a drink.
It’s gonna come out trite, but we just want you to be happy. Good for you!
Not trite at all. You’ve earned saying whatever you want.
I concur…we just want you to be happy. :)
Thanks, I’m working on it.
(hugs) I am looking forward to your new chapter, and here for you to help you turn the next page.
Me too. And how awesome would it be if we can do that by meeting? !!!
You are my hero, Melanie! Many, many hugs to you. I totally wish I could buy you a drink!
Are you going to change your blog address, too?
Thanks. :)
I already have another domain name purchased and plan to move everything there, I just need to find the time to do it. It’s on my list for September…
I didn’t “know” but figured and didn’t want to intrude because I know you like to keep your private life more private. If you need another ear or anything let me know. :) I luv ya, MC Hoo. And like all your other buddies just want you to be a happy Hooey!!!! *hugs*
Dork, you wouldn’t be intruding! Thanks sweetie. :)
Glad you’ve found support. Be well and happy.
Thanks Avery.
I agreed with Turkey on her blog but it’s got to be said here too. I just heart the new profile picture that goes along with your name Hooey!!!
*peek at hoo’s new view*
hehehehehe I rhyme. :D
OMG that just made me crack up. And I swear Mr. Leinie had nothing to do with it.
Didn’t know, but suspected, but it was none of my business so nothing was said. I just lurked in the shadows reading because I enjoy reading your writings. You need to be happy and you weren’t. I’d certainly buy you a drink if Chicago, or where ever you are, were closer to Startex.
Thanks Robin. I assumed people had figured it out by now, but things like this do need to be said at some point. :)
Do you want me to try to cheer you up with my Snoopy dance? I’ve been practicing, so I hardly ever fall over… :)
That would be AWESOME!
*does Snoopy dance*
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*falls over*
Well don’t hurt yourself on my account!
It’s tough thing to go through, I’m sure. I’m close enough to buy you a drink ;o) Just let me know when and where, and I’m there! I’m glad you have people that are there for you. That makes a huge difference ;o)
*hugs*
I was actually just thinking of you because we almost went to your mall. We really have to plan something soon.
((hugs)) And I plan on buying you a drink someday. Will be fun to finally meet!
I would LOVE that. :)
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Just be a happy little Hooey. I know you will be.
Thanks Robin.
Lo siento. I wish you the best. Gotcha in my prayers for a happy life.